I've figured something out.

Jarvis doesn't need a father figure in his life after all. So he is a Momma's boy. What's the problem with that? Lots of Momma's boys grow up to be upstanding citizens. And if he doesn't, well thats ok too, he will just keep me company in my dottage.

So I am going to strike it alone for a while. Cut the drama from my life and this blog. It will probably be easier to cut it from the blog than my life, because the blog is a constructed representation of what is going on with me, so I can put on it what I darn well please.

Of course, it might be difficult to strike it out alone. So I have come up with a plan. Or more accurately, I have remembered an earlier plan that I had before.